As you know Jane from C of Shooz has been one of my favorite bloggers. I was one of the few young women who was cheering for her when she walked down the aisles of the Crillon Ball. It’s a ridiculously pretentious world, and one I’m happy to watch from afar. But there were thousands of women, young and old, who were seething with resentment when this happened. I was happy not only for Jane, but also because she made all the other trashy fashion blogging trolls look like, well, a snickers bar next to a deliriously beautiful cakes you’ll see from Fauchon. It was a heroic day for me. It was a personal victory.
Also, I’ve personally interacted with C-dawgs, and she’s really one of the nicest girls I’ve ever dealt with. She’s also precocious. Intelligent, for her age. I mean she was like 12 when I was reading her blog and wearing all the brands I never wore. When I was 12 I was wearing JNCO’s…I had them in like, every color. I was shocked through my personal dealings with her. I thought she’d be a spoiled rotten brat. She was the opposite.
There was a certain blogger who as you may know, who constantly bullied her. I can take criticism, no troll on the internet can bully me. It’s just words, if someone says something mean to you, walk away from the computer screen. Don’t be a coward. There’s no such thing as cyberbullying, if you’re over 18 and an adult, you’ll have greater pressures to face in this world. Cyberbullying? Please. Get a firm grip. I was only concerned for C-DAWGS at this time because she was a young girl. And cyber bullying can be a lot of pressure at that age. What they were saying about this young girl who they didn’t know, was horrifying and mean. At the same time, I like this critical blogger (elder woman) whose name I won’t mention. I agree with everything else she says. I never agreed though, when reading her personal attacks towards Sea. You can’t resent a younger girl for having it all, for being intelligent and beyond her age…for being classy. You can’t resent her for having a mom who protects and provides her with nice shoes. I’m sorry, you just can’t. This elder blogger also took hits at me too. Did I go home crying? No. No woman or man on the internet scares me. I’m serious! It’s all comedy.
The other tween I took style advice from was Hapsical. He has fallen off the face of the earth ….. I think if a youngster stops blogging, he or she either went fitness crazy or fell in love or maybe like he found God. Or he or she realized this blogging world is ridiculous. Life is happier when you’re on the bench sometimes.
Anyway, I realize that Sea has changed the tone of her blog. Back in the day she had the most amazing style, but right now she’s doing more “easy” and “commercial” looks. She also has a huge thigh gap. I like how thin she looks. Just like don’t lose any more weight or I will be sending her hamburgers…I still read her blog religiously as it is the only one I’m interested in on the NowManifest portal of crickets. I thought about it the other night, and realized I didn’t care that she’d changed. Because so have I. I still find her website and style interesting … I don’t really have time to pick out every single look I’ve ever liked from her archives but here are some I dig right now. She’s really a very sweet girl, and unlike the other “top bloggers” who are just, in my opinion, low class not because they lack access to designer goods but low class because they lack morals and courage.
I love this look below. And I tried to figure it out. Why the fuck do I like it? I just remembered. It’s kind of like what Hasidic Jewish women wear, like long frumpy skirts and button down crepe shirts. Except Sea’s version is like, the you know, “let’s get loose” version…Check out more of her looks here. And please be respectful with the comments you leave on this post (if you even leave them ha!!!) because if it is mean I will delete them. I won’t have those Texan folks in a tizzy over bitchy comments by some coward behind a computer screen. Or be a coward. Leave the meanest comment you can ever think of and watch me shred you until you go home crying to your mommy.